Evening all LP's!
Thanks for reading. I know the question seems a little bizaare, but I'm just left wondering what all the legal implications are!!???
Basically, my STBEX & I have been separated a few weeks only. It was my choice, but in the last week he has been banging on about getting a divorce right away. He said as long as we agree on everything, we can do a fast on-line one, I just need to sign. He wants joint custody of our 21 month old DS, 50/50 care, alternate weekends. He is a teacher, so would have him more in the holidays. I'm fine with that, obviously I want my DS to grow around his dad. I think he is rushing the divorce to make a point, but I'm more worried about the future. If he decides to move etc.
so, are there any hidden things behind joint custody. Since we broke up, I've been entitled to Child tax credits. Someone told me that if he has our DS to stay over night, one more night than I do, I could end up paying him. Is this right?
Also, when you get a divorce, does Joint custody have to be stipulated legally or can you just crack on, but without finalising things????
Thanks so much. We didnt own a house & neither is after any assets, so that doesn't need to be discussed.......at this stage!!!! (Watch this space)
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deepbluewave · 01/04/2013 19:21
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