AIBU to think my mum shouldn't fecking interfere?

[SoFookingHurt]

She does a lot for us, takes the kids to school for me as I can't drive and the schools are miles away. Dd and I had a disagrement tonight over her being ungrateful. I bluffed that I was going to bed. Dd apparently called my mum, mum came steaming over and let herself into my house.

She then threw a pissed up strop, (I said she was drama queen) told me I was a mental case (am on anti d), we had a row, she told me she was cutting me out of her life, said goodbye to the kids and stumbled off.

Then my dad rings me...(I rarely hear from him). He said my mum rang him totally pissed up and to ignore her. He told me a few things I didn't know...i'm confused now tbh.

and upset, very upset.

[SoFookingHurt]

She does drink a lot. She really hurt me tonight. She has since called ds on his mobile to check he's ok and dd on landline (I was in the bath). Apparently she asked dd if i'd fed them tea (if she wasn't so pissed up she might remember their tea was in the oven when she burst in).

Talk about a fucking nightmare.