I've lurked on this board (and others here) for a long time, agonising over the decision of whether to end it with my daughter's dad. The other night, he came out with yet another nasty comment and I finally told him it was finished. I feel a bit removed from my feelings but also sad and daunted about the path ahead. However, I think I've made the right decision; most of my worries about the future are about logistics and how my daughter will cope rather than feeling like I will miss him or can't live without him... and I know it's early days; but tonight was just awful. I've told my daughter (3.5) that mummy and daddy haven't been getting on very well and that we are both sad but that he is going not going to stay with us anymore (he's had his own flat for 2 years now, round the corner, but for the last couple of months has been staying with us 'to see how things go'). She didn't really seem to react much at the time, but tonight when I was getting her ready for bed, she was acting up and when I told her firmly to stop, started howling for her dad, sobbing etc. I really had trouble holding it together myself, straining not to cry in front of her. It will get better, won't it?!
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night two, daughter howling for dad, barely holding it together
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fizzyone · 25/09/2012 21:07
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