I have a little dream place in my head I disappear to when things get tough between me and my husband. It?s where dc and I live in another happier house without him, and planning on how we might get there is my little bit of escapism that gets me through the week. Nothing sinister about the situation apart from the fact that I am terribly unhappy and my teeny dreams make things much more bearable.
Now, this sounds so calculated and cold but? as part of my planning I need to get my finances in order and I am trying to work out how much maintenance he might have to pay. I have used the CSA calculator but the issue I have is that he is self employed and whilst his turnover doesn?t fluctuate too wildly from one annual total to the next he pays himself a small amount of wages and takes the rest as a dividend at the end of the year. So basically a small salary with a massive (in comparison) bonus.
Has anyone else had a smiliar situation and if so how does CSA work around this? I know that I will have to go to them to sort this out as one of the reasons I am even considering this is because he is very controlling where money is concerned. So a family arrangement would be out of the question.
Any advice very gratefully received.
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Calculating maintenance when exH is self employed- help please!
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PooseGimples · 11/01/2012 16:21
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