Hello,
My DD (4 years old) just started school. She lives with me and I have joint parental responsibility with her dad.
Her dad 'told' me he is going to take her out of school next week for a religious celebration, an event that can easily be celebrated after school time (he is not that religious) He also told me he is planning to take her to his home country for a wedding for 3 weeks again during term time. Apparently it is imperative she attends the wedding as his family 'needs' her there, although they did not bother to check when she would be in school when setting the wedding date. He warned me not to be difficult (not that I was impressed, as I know he is a coward)
I am not happy about this, I have told him she has just started school and I just want her to settle in properly, so I won't give consent. I feel that I have to nip this taking her out of school at his whim. I have spoken to her teacher and explained the situation. She says the school can't prevent him taking her out of school, best thing to do would be to contact the head teacher to discuss. I value her education, I went to great lengths to get her into this school, I am worried I will have to attend court for 'unauthorised attendance' whilst I can't prevent this from happening?
Any advice what to do? He is a very manipulative person.
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DutchGirly · 20/09/2011 07:52
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