...I am a bit confused.
My son was born early May. His father left me the moment I told him about the pregnancy and told me not to contact him ever again. So I wasn't exactly expecting him to offer to pay any maintenance! And after reading so many negative stories about the CSA, I didn't excpect them to be of any help either, but figured that I have nothing to lose if I apply the maintenance through them anyway. So I sent the application early June and they called me a couple of weeks later (around 15-16th June) to tell me they've received the application etc and they also said it may well take several months before I'll receive any money.
However on the 22nd of August I received a random amount of money from the CSA. I say random, because it is a lot more than I would expect to get in 1 month but also less than I'd expect to get if it was backdated to the whichever date it was I made the claim. They still haven't sent me any letter/email, do they not normally do that?
Also, as this happened so "quickly" (compared to all the cases I've read about), is it safe to assume that my ex has paid this maintenance "voluntarily"? I used to work in the same company as he still does, so I was able to give them (CSA) all the details, but surely the CSA has to give him some time to pay up before they start taking the money straight from his wages?? (This is me holding on to the last glimpse of hope that my ex might not be entirely rotten..)
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