another thread prompted me to ask this question.
Ex and I do alternate weekends with DD - 4 but not DS as he has only just turned 1- he just has him in the day instead. As it stands there are no overnights in the week as he can't have them to stay where he is at the moment - but this will change when he does.
We do Christmas / holidays on an ad hoc basis - childminder just had 2 weeks off and we pretty much shared them give or take a day or 2. It's the one thing we seem to be able to agree on surprisingly but actually our communication is rubbish mainly as I am still so annoyed with him what what he did - but the access things is fine.
Anyway money v tight but my mum has just suggested she take us all away for christmas abroad. I would dearly love to go - it would give us all a break, change of scenery which we all really need... But it would be a week (due to flights etc ) probably going the day before C Eve and back a week later. I have no idea how he will react to this. I mean I actually understand that he would want to see them either on the day or boxing day and the few days afterwards but I would so so dearly love for us all to go away.I have recently gone back to work in a stressful job after Mat leave and would love for us all to go.
I know the only way for me to suss him out is to have the conversation with him but I just wondered if anyone else had had this? Or is it a given that you can't do things like this to make it fair for everyone. Any experiences or opinions very welcomed thanks
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Seth · 30/08/2011 21:23
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