Hello,
Dd is 3.5. Was a single mum from pregnancy and until she was 2. Since then she has built a strong and regular connection with my BF. So that's for 1.5 years. We have been on and off, but today we broke up for good.
Each time we broke up in the past it was always a big issue for me. How to protect her emotions? I thought that despite a break up with BF that she should still be able to keep her friendship with him intact somehow. I thought it was unfair for his to disappear from her life from one day to the next. We never got to that because we always got back together. But now we are at this point and I just can't decide what to do for the best. He means so much to her. He is the only father figure she ever had. She adores him and he does her. But he and I cannot see eye to eye as a couple. He says he never remains friends with an ex. Bu he is prepared to protect her feelings and try to come to some arrangement so that he still has contact with her.
I need to hear from other mothers. Is it best to make a clean break? Is it damaging to her concept of future relationships if he is just gone from her life so abruptly?
It would be helpful to hear from peoples experiences, from both angles. I want to do whats best for DD. Many thanks X
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Breaking up with a BF? Best way to protect DD's emotions?
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bellbottom · 12/08/2011 19:19
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