I try pretty hard to stay on good terms with my exP and his partner, but sometimes she (his girlfriend) approaches me with requests without speaking to him first and they are designed to pull on the heartstrings, but are I feel a bit inappropriate.
I've been asked to send money over when they have DS during the holidays. She's lost her job and they are both students waiting for their grant money.
Now I have not have any child support from him while he has been studying, he chose to pack in working and go back into education for at least four years. We spoke and arranged his access so that he does every other weekend, one week night and half the holidays. I thought this reasonable as he was at least taking some responsibility, if not financial responsibility.
He's currently looking to get a job, and I was not going to ask for child support as I know they are in a difficult situation.
So what do I do now? I can't afford the money as I am on benefits, I am moving house and my money is all tied up. I don't want to fall out with them over this, but I feel like it's a bit of a piss take expecting me to give them money to have DS.
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GrownUpNow · 11/08/2011 10:28
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