hi again
My ex moved out 2 weeks ago tomorrow, and I am quite worried because he seems to be cutting himself off from our 4 kids (aged 9, 7, 6 and 5). He had them for one night last weekend and described his weekend as "shit", but before he moved out he was around ALL the time. The past 2 evenings my 6yo ds has asked to speak to him, but he hasn't answered the phone (mobile) or called back. Ds went to bed before 8 and came downstairs at 9 crying to ask if daddy had called yet.
He's meant to be having them this weekend, and I txtd him at lunchtime as one of the kids had asked if they were staying Friday as well as Saturday night. He got back to me hours later saying that he's not quite sure what his plans are for this weekend so he'll let me know nearer the time. This from a person who never left it more than 5 mins before replying to a txt from me before he moved out (and we've been divorced since decemebr 2009!).
I am worried for the kids. This is so unlike how he was before he moved out, I thought I was going to have to tell him to back off. I have no idea what to say to him or what is reasonable, after all he pays me maintenance, is this like paying me to be their parent???
He has made me cry :'-(
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MummyPhus · 01/08/2011 23:09
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