I wonder could you offer me some advice please. I'm at a total loss what to do.
Just a bit of history, my ex walked out on us (our dd is 4) in January. Went back to the UK and is now due to be married to ow later this year.
Our dd is devastated. She's heartbroken, playing up at school etc. Ex has made little or no contact, so I decided to contact him a few weeks ago. He arranged to skype our dd. He was abrupt with her, couldn't relate to her and then cut her off.
I arranged another skype date a few days later but she refused to talk to him. I just thought she was tired and told him I would contact him a few days later to arrange another skype date. Since then dd refuses to talk to him. I have told him this, but he has not responded so I take it he is not interested. I contact him by email only.
Every couple of days, I ask if she wants to talk to daddy, but tonight she told me, he doesn't make her happy and doesn't love her. She has said similar things over the last few months. This coming from a 4 year old.
I really feel I could not force her to go on skype and I try to encourage her as much as possible.
He will not commit to plan any visits to see his dd claiming he is low in cash (he does not pay child maintenance and has a good job) and he would be too long away from home. It's the UK, not Australia!
I found out last year, he has a 21 year old and he walked out on her too.
I'm afraid this lack of contact will affect my daughter's future. I'm between a 'rock and a hard place', what would you do?
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newhorizon · 29/06/2011 21:25
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