hello everyone,
I have two dd's, 11 and 4. Left my not so DH almost 3 years ago. He met and is engaged to someone he met a year after we split up.
I have been dating now for about 6 months, introduced my DDs to my partner at Easter but my eldest has severe jealousy and I don't know how to get through this.
I've told her that they will always come first but her behaviour is terrible whenever he is on the phone or if we are together.
She is like this also with any of my female friends - if they ring or if I'm arranging to meet them while my dd's are with their dad on a weekend.
I spend a lot of time with my dd's and we do lots of activites together.
My new partner has seen me while they've been at home one night a week over the last three weeks so it's not as though he is getting in the way of my relationship with my children. If anything, he keeps a distance so that they don't see him as a threat.
My wider family met him this weekend and thought he was lovely. He is a quiet man and very thoughtful but my eldest made a scene and my sister had a word with her to calm her down.
I don't know what else I can do other than being supportive and continuing to spend time with them, as I usually do but I'm getting nowhere with her emotionally.
She is also still jealous of her father's partner and also her two children. They are all now living together and have been for almost a year.
I'm worried that if her behaviour doesn't improve then my relationship isn't going to survive.
any advice?
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iloveshoesandbags · 28/06/2011 20:32
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