All fairly amicable & we get on ok so reluctant to rock the boat BUT lots of things niggling at the moment. Am worried if I bring up one then I'll rant
Will be vague but any suggestions of priorities for me to discuss with him would be helpful
Dd2 has a couple of problems we have input from medical professionals for. They say be consistent and suggest xyz. I do xyz and xh does xya or xyc. Nothing that will make her ill but may delay sorting the problem
Dd1 (10)had Xmas money they used to buy clothes for her with which was ok if they hadn't bought stuff she already had. Especially when she does need new clothes. She also likes to be involved in buying her own clothes.
They always come back shattered on a sun night & go straight to bed but still tired in the morning after late nights at his.
We are quite flexible about swapping days/weekends for special events/occasions but he has ended up with part of 5 in a row and we had to rearrange a huge family do as he double booked them(after being told months ago)
He always promises money for school trips & tells them but doesn't get round to it. In the past this hasn't been a problem as we could afford it but dh isn't working now & I'm on maternity leave so money is getting tighter.
These are the main ones anyway. Any suggestions how to broach it too please.
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nymphadora · 09/01/2011 11:58
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