H and I have separated very recently, very amicably.
After looking at the options of one or both of us moving out, the top and bottom of it is that we just can't afford to. Our house has a bit of a granny flat type extention so he is 'living' in there.
We have 3 children. He works, I have been a SAHM for the last 9 years.
He is being reasonable re. money but I need my own money, separate from his obviously, and I don't want to feel like I 'owe' him anything so I will be claiming benefits, I have an appointment at the job centre on Friday and should hopefully find out exactly what I'm entitled to claim, and how much I would recieve, and so then H and I can work out a fair percentage of bills or whatever I will be paying.
Thing is, I wondered if anyone has been in this posistion? I know I will be entitled to obviously child benefit, tax credits and income support, but does anyone know if I'd be entitled to housing/council tax benefit, certainly not the full amount, but a proportion?
I guess I am just trying to work out our (the kids and mine) lives from here on in and Friday seems like years away.
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Has anyone ever separated, but still lived under the same roof? Question re. benefits mainly.
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propmeupplease · 14/07/2010 11:49
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