Hi, everyone. We’re a family of 4 (me, DH, our then-to-be 5-year old boy and 2-year old girl) planning on moving back to the UK from abroad. Whilst deep down I think I know this is probably completely unattainable financially speaking, I just can’t seem to stop myself clutching onto a teeny glimmer of hope. You see, I have a dream, and the dream is… Teddington!
I was born there and lived there until the ripe old age of six – probably nostalgia, but I have very happy memories of the place, and from what I’ve read online it seems to still be well-loved by families…. What appeals most is the high street, the villagey feel, the sportsy vibe, the walkable nature of the place and – the absolute cruncher – Bushy Park, Hampton Ct, oh, and of course the river, too. Plus all the sentimental stuff about going back to my roots and all that (particularly as I think that’s where my Mum, who passed away last year, was probably happiest). Basically, I’d give my right arm to live there if I could, but the big question on my mind is… can Teddington on a budget be done?!
Initially we’d be aiming to rent just a two-bed flat (ideally with a garden), and the very cheapest options I’ve seen online go for about 1,300. Having lived abroad for over 14 years, I’m out of the loop on cost of living with kids, so am trying to work out how much we’d have to budget for on top of the basic monthly rental, eg for Council Tax, Gas, Elec, Water, etc? And what might I be looking at for full-time childcare for a 2-year old (assuming it makes financial sense to work full-time, once childcare costs are taken into account?).
Just writing this all down now already fills me with a sense of doom as I fear my Teddington aspirations may be just a pipedream tbh. On the additional income side, I’ve heard about child tax credit, child care vouchers with some jobs, etc, but I have no idea how much these will all come to in total. Basically, I’m trying to work out how much me and my OH would need to earn between us to cover cost of living if our rent was in the 1300-1500 region. In theory we’re two ‘professional’ people, but since we’re both in the charity sector – and I’ve also been a SAHM for the last 4 years – I’m not sure if that will cut it :(
Is there any way on Earth that Teddington is even remotely accessible to ordinary folks, or do you absolutely have to be on two juicy City salaries to get by there nowadays?! Sorry for the long post, and many TIA for being gentle with me…. Again, I know this is probably all very pie in the sky, but I thought it couldn’t hurt to at least ask!
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Teddington on a budget?!/Cost of living for fam of 4
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missdaisy2013 · 14/05/2018 03:55
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