Hi all, not sure if this is the right board, but I'm looking for advice from people who've been there and done it!
My DH is in a senior position in a global company based in the UK, and is being asked to take a role that covers a European region. Offices are based in France and Holland and he'd be expected to be present in one or the other weekly. The company would support either a weekly commute or a relocation, it's really up to him to propose how he'd make it work.
We have two small children, with a third on the way. I can't decide what is the preferable option, to move the whole family so we can be together and my husband is around for the newborn phase, or to effectively be on my own three or four days/two or three nights a week with a newborn and two other demanding children who don't sleep well.
I have a lovely support network of friends and family in the UK who I know would help however they could (although no night time help), my eldest is settled in Yr1 in school and happier than she's ever been. My youngest is still in nursery but due to start school next year. We would know no one in either of the proposed relocation cities, and although I am an experienced traveller myself and good at making friends, I'm really worried about being isolated in a new place, with a new baby, and two children to settle into either a foreign language school or an international school/nursery.
I'm also aware that we don't know how long this role will last, it could be a year or it could be five, so concerned about jumping in with both feet, losing the kids' school places, and having a world of pain getting them back in...
Any advice based on experience of similar would be hugely welcome!
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User48423299 · 07/02/2017 10:37
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