Hi, my DH spent around 7 years living in a couple of locations around the globe, with both our jobs. We then had my DS and moved home to our home city in Australia when he was 3 weeks old. My DH stayed with his company and I started a new job with my company. Fast forward 3 years, we are still here and I have just come back to my job after 4 months maternity leave after having DD. DH's company is a global company and are very big on moving people around - hence our previous overseas postings. It is likely they will approach him about another move sometime next year.
Just to paint a picture of our life here - we own our own home in a lovely suburb, we are very very close to both our families and my DM and DMIL look after both children several fulls days a week as both DH and I work full-time. We both very much enjoy our jobs, although they are demanding and stressful. I find raising small children very very difficult and find it quite stressful but I am seeing the light now that my oldest is turning 3.
I guess what we are trying to consider is whether we should consider another expat posting and the pros and cons. He is thinking he might offer to move to KL and try and me trying to get a role with DH's company. Other option is North America and he moves with his company and I move with mine. I just can't figure out whether moving overseas would make life significantly more difficult without the family help. However, particularly if we moved to KL, in-home help is much more affordable, so perhaps in many ways life would be easier? Obviously, financially, a posting would be advantageous particularly because DH's company provides accommodation, schooling, travel allowance etc.
For those of you with young children (i.e. babies and toddlers), would you recommend an overseas posting away from family? Anyone have any particular experience living in KL?
I just think we should stick with what we have got and not take the risk. But on the other hand, I would love for my children to experience life overseas.
All advice welcome!
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emmyloo2 · 14/10/2013 04:27
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