My dear friend’s brother has been advised that he has got a few weeks to live. She is next of kin and he will come home to her house for his last weeks if he recovers enough to do so and his pain management is sorted out.
I know him, not massively well, I see him a few times a year. I am supporting my friend but would really like to send something more than a card to her brother. He has everything he needs and a lovely family sitting with him for most of the day in shifts.
He is currently a very poorly man. Drowsy and very confused from the medication.
He isn’t eating much (in hospital) so no food (or flowers).
The only thing I have thought of is a book of photos of somewhere I know is close to his heart, my thought being that he isn’t up to reading but if he had a brighter moment he might look at some beautiful photos for a few minutes and it might lift his spirits.
Or is that a bad idea and should I stick to a card.
Any other suggestions of what to buy and what to do (or not) for him, not my friend, I know how to help her.
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Life-limiting illness
What would you send someone in these circumstances
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BarchesterFlowers · 18/10/2017 08:59
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