My partner and I are thinking of starting a family.
We have been talking about it for around 8 - 12 months now, and I am finally starting to look at the possibilities.
I suppose I have a few questions, and I have been looking for the past week or so now, and I just cant seem to find the answers.
My partner will be carrying the baby, she is the much more fem one out of us, being straight until she met me & I we both think that her carrying the child makes so much more sense.
I just wondered what my rights would be when the baby is born, what will I be stated as on the birth certificate.
In regards to my working rights I wondered if I would get paternity leave so to speak...
Also my partner had a twisted ovary around the age of 15, would the NHS provide tests to see if the ovary's are working as they should as I know some private companies provide an 'MOT' so to speak...
And then there is the worry of cost... I know that when having a baby you need a good income (which I believe we have) as well as savings, and a lot of love, all of this we have but the thought of £3,000+ to conceive is scary.
We will want a sperm donar, we have thought about one of our friends being the sperm donar but I think we would both feel so much better if it was someone we didnt know, with a background history similar to mine feeling as though the child is as much mine as it is my partners. We both said we would like to do the incemination ourself at home.
Can anyone recommend some sites to read through & look at.
Thanks,
Cora.
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CoraHarrison · 12/07/2012 15:01
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