Hi everyone,
this is my first post here. Kids are not teenage but young adults so hope it's still ok to post.
So, my stepson started dating this girl about 5 years ago and since then his life has changed a lot. He always suffered from low self-esteem and when he started seeing her my husband and I were happy.
However he went from working odd jobs to being on benefits, apparently because he realised he'd suffered several traumas growing up and has developed mental health issues. His girlfriend is also on benefits and they live in their little bubble, not seeing many people.
My stepson still sees us but has cut all ties with several members of his family, including everyone on his mother's side. On his dad's side he has seen family members who visited while he was there but wouldn't make an effort to see them otherwise.
His girlfriend has now come out as transgender and is about to start transitioning. My stepson had decided he is in love with her as a person and will stick with her, come what may.
I am worried he says this now but might see it differently when she starts developing facial hair / having surgery etc.
Whilst being open-minded, he always seemed to be attracted to girls, not to guys and I worry about what this new development will do to his mental health.
Anyone else has ever been in this situation?
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scarletwoman23 · 03/01/2020 11:22
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