So I have three kids
11.9 & 5
I'm married to a woman and have been with her since 2014
My children's father, hasn't ever really been a great dad
Yes he is there, sat on a laptop ignoring them but he is there.
About 18 months ago he moved to Saudi for work, sold it to me like it was for the kids future extra
Bullshit!!!
He sends them money yes.
He started off ringing them but soon it stopped now it's once in a blue moon n my middle child refuses to speak to him
Say he will email, but it's just coz he doesn't know what to say.
They have seen him once since he went over there n the aftermath was awful
Now he doesn't ring or anything
Kids don't talk about him
They aren't upset daily missing him
But he is wanting to see them in feb
When he comes home n I don't want him to coz the kids will get upset confused n then have to go god knows how long til they see him again
It's not fair
But I don't know how to say it over email
How to put it into words without sounding
Like I'm the c@&t
He is all good with words n well educated aswell
Am I even doing the right thing ?
My kids don't need him
N he clearly doesn't care for them
Help me please x
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Help me break the news that he isn't seeing his kids again
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Chapman198 · 09/01/2018 01:30
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