Hi,
Sorry to bother you all. I'm in a bit of a pickle with CAFCASS & a strange judge.
My wife (soon to be ex) and I just attended our first CAFCASS hearing, although 2 months ago we aquired a court order to the effect that my son needs to reside in the family home and that we both need to be responsible for getting him to school. It's a horrible situation because it effectively means we have to live together (my sons school is 15 miles away, and my daughter's from a previous marriage who lives with me is 20 miles away). We were planning to move house to be near the schools (my daughter started her new school in Sept) but the order is preventing it.
Anyway, we'd been looking forward to the first hearing, to get the order replaced with a more suitable one) because my wife and I are in accord on all matters. We proposed a 50/50 joint residency. The judge effectively chucked us out and told us to attend mediation. No new court date, no nothing, old order still stands (the driving is killing us, and my daughter, who the judge didn't want to hear about, is now having to stay with her mum, closer to her school, because I simply can't get her there). Divorce proceedings have not yet been started.
The Mediation people have no idea what's going on. The judge told us to go and see them but as we're in complete accord we've got nothing to talk about. Our meeting with them was almost embarrassing, as there was nothign for them to do. They've never seen anything like it. My legal advisor is stumped.
Anyone been in a similar situation? I'm particularly interested to know if anyone has any idea why the judge told me not to talk to her about my daughter, even though her court order has effectively prevented me from parenting her. Can she DO that??? My daughter's lived with me for nine years and this is devastating.
Thanks
Richard
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Richard71 · 04/11/2009 08:04
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