Hello, looking for advice please on whether we are at the end of the road. Things have always been a bit prickly between us and NDN but have worsened over the past year due to the behaviour of their DS (17). For a long time he was not allowed in the house on his own so would have to wait around outside until his parents turned up and let him in. We had several instances later where he was in the house with friends (without parents) and we had to bring the kids into the house due to the swearing from them in the garden. This was brought up reasonably with the DS but he was just rude back to us. We also witnessed him making a racist remark out of his window to a child passing his house. These small incidents were reported to 101.
Most recently he started spitting on our drive as he walked past. On the last occasion my husband was parking our car with our DC inside at the time and so got out and followed him to his front door to ask him to stop. He replied with foul language, his dad came to the door and did the same. The dad and the son threatened my DH and as my DH turned to leave their property the DS pushed him. These incidents were reported to police, they interviewed DH and the NDNs (who had already told him that they were going to lie) but no charges or cautions were issued. The DS takes every opportunity now to taunt us that he has got off with this.
I'm really stressed out by this, we have made a lot of sacrifices to get this house and live in a safe area (we are in London) for our DC and this little shit is destroying our safe haven. I have a stressful job and I really need peace and quiet at home, instead I lie awake wondering what he will do next.
Can we appeal the police decision, or ask for some kind of asb order? We have plenty of evidence with around 10 events logged with the police and council...
Many thanks for sticking with it....
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foxychox · 20/12/2017 19:54
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