I think I need to do something about my ex-sils.
I've been subjected to what I can only describe as a 'hate campaign' for about 7 years, now. I'm used to it, and try my best to ignore them.
However, I simply can't ignore the Police and/or Social Services on my doorstep! Their latest 'thing' is 'reporting' me to my son's school, SS, the NSPCC, the DWP and, now, the police.
The lies are along the lines of my supposed drug/alcohol use, me co-habiting whilst receiving HB, 'dodgy' visitors, having an eating disorder (I have lost weight, but due to the bloody stress!), 'abandoning' my son (ie, not being home when they dropped him off 2 hours earlier than agreed, not letting his dad see him (not true at all) and just general neglect.
I've volunteered/submitted to random drug testing and breath tests, all of which were negative. I've had a SS case opened, and closed/dismissed as malicious reports and I've taken my 6yo DS to the GP for a check up, at which he was declared perfectly fit and healthy.
I know, and anyone that matters knows, that this stuff is simply not true, but 'mud sticks' and I'm becoming increasingly anxious, eg, on the school run, as I don't know who believes what stuff about me. More importantly, I am really concerned that the rumours will affect my son's social life. I can't bear the thought of him being left out of play dates and parties, because of what other parents, who don't know me well, might think of us.
I can't afford a solicitor (I'm still recovering from the completely unnecessary 18 month court case he/they dragged me through - withdrawing the application at the final hearing, proving that it was never actually about contact, but just another way of intimidating me).
Women's Aid consider it to be Domestic Abuse, even though it is his family, more than him, making the calls/posting 'memes' (I think they're called) which are clearly aimed at me, turning up en masse in the playground, sniggering like mean schoolgirls etc, etc.
Can anyone suggest an appropriate draft letter?
Or, if anyone has had to do similar, did it do any good?
TIA for any advice.
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WomanScorned · 23/12/2016 04:43
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