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Basic story, 4 DC. 3 to my ex husband (divorced for 5 years), 1 DD to ex DP. This is about DD (17 months old). When we split up I put DD on the same contact arrangements as my other DC, ex DP was happy with this, he knew the arrangements as he had been living with us for 2 years.
Arrangments are: every Tuesday night after school overnight take to school the next morning. Alternate Friday/Saturday 6pm until 6pm the next day. I also added in a thursday night dinner/bath and bring home for DD as she is so young and i felt she needed frequent contact.
Relations have now completely broken down as ex kept cancelling weekends as he had other plans.
He has now gone to a solicitor because he wants DD on his own schedule. Every other weekend and a midweek night. He also wants to change the xmas arrangements which are christmas eve until christmas day 10am and then the next year christmas day 10am to boxing day 10am.
This is nothing to do with what is best for DD and all about him wanting a clear weekend without her. It isn't in her best interest to be seeing him less frequently. I also can't see how it will be in her best interest to be on different schedules to her siblings, they will end up with two weekend days together a month.
Will this hold any weight in court? Can he just demand to change the schedule even though its not the best thing for her? Does anyone have any advice at all please?
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I need some help re contact arrangements please
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redcardi · 29/09/2016 20:37
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