Since the breakdown of my (very short) marriage three months ago, my STBXH and I have been trying to sort out what we are doing with our flat.
There has been a lot of to-ing and fro-ing, but it's now looking like we will be selling up, he had been due to buy me out but due to Brexit, he doesn't consider this a wise decision any longer.
Ex left the flat 2 and a half months ago, and I remained. He had been responsible for the mortgage and main bills on the flat since it was purchased three years ago, and I was responsible for other things (car payment, insurance, groceries, flat maintenance). Since he left, I had been paying him some money towards the flat, minus car expenses.
He now wants to live back in the flat. When the plan was to buy me out, the plan was for me to leave this weekend to move back in with my parents and he would have paid me my share of the equity at the end of july when his mortgage went through, so I would not have been liable to pay for any costs of upkeep to the flat as I was signing it over to him. However, as this plan has now changed, he still wants me to move out. I am happy to move out, but my only concern is that I won't be able to pay the costs for living with my parents (I will be paying money towards living in their house), paying the full car costs and paying for the share of the mortgage on the flat I own with ex. He has said I don't need to pay, however I feel that down the line he could argue that I'm not entitled to 50% of the equity.
I have asked for him to put it in writing that as a condition of me moving out, I won't be held liable for the share of the mortgage and this won't affect my share of the equity. He got very angry at this and accused me of thinking that he is trying to cheat me. But I am considering that the flat might not sell for a long time, and he might start to resent the fact he is solely responsible and I will still be gaining from it. Is it possible that he could argue that I haven't been paying so shouldn't therefore be entitled to 50%? And would having something written help prevent this?
Thanks so much for any advice and I apologise if it was so long (I didn't want to miss out anything important)!
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garlicbreathing · 29/06/2016 22:26
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