Hi all can I please say I have nothing to hide what to ever.
I have over done it with my ex partner.
With a ex ex unfortunately 4 kids have been adopted due to a number of reasons
My ex partner knows all of this as I was honest
With my ex we have liked each other on/off for quite a few years until what has happened recently ):
Ok,the story I find things like that hard to write ):
Because we got together fully we was friends, close friends even though she fully know what happens to my kids. She also has a 10 year old daughters.
We both want to know what would happen if we lived together as we I started to like each other alot.
After many phone calls with ss 3 three record, Ss said I am no risk. She told her family too and there was ok as Ss give me the ok
Everything was ok until middle ish February when my ex ex turned up and wanted to talk to me. I refused as to much as happened. 2or 3 night later she and partner came back and smashed a window. I was straight on the phone to the police and I give a statement. They also made multiple malicious phone call to out of hours Ss. When the police they rises NO concerns. It was a police welfare check
A few days later we had a letter saying thery want to do a home visit to see us then they said I was a risk however I got told I was not a risk calls records.
My exparter is apx 28/29 Weeks pregnancy. If Ss said I was a risk then we would NEVER be in tho postion.
We now live separately because of all of this trouble as its much easier as my ex ex lives a few mins away):
My ex ex has course a lot of problems in the last 2 weeks from making malicious phone call's to Ss to making up fake facebook accounts in her daughters name. Each and every time we have reports this and its like the police are doing nothing.
Last time Ss went round to my ex partners place Ss said any more malicious complains will not be investigated if it comes from the ex ex or and new partner + her mum.
I would love to try again but not move back in for oiv reasons how since I have been told the ex never loved me (ouch)
I loved her very much and her daughter.and we now have a daughter on the way. She is apx 28/29,weeks pregnant.
While I have done nothing wrong Ss are takeing action about me. I am on stage 1,complaint with the council as Ss and say we never Sai you are ok with kids. Ss have now heard the calls.
I would love to show my love to our daughter. Its not much harder when everybody has turned there back to me.
I have signed up to do a parenting course and I work 40+hrs a week
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was not a risk but now i am - help please :)
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chr1582 · 12/05/2015 23:20
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