So been to a Directions meeting in court this morning in relation to ex wanting more contact with son.
Sat in waiting area and his solicitor walks in. Oh no! Recognize her as close friend to my partner's family. She is the Cousin's long-standing best friend. Her husband is my partner's, Cousin's business partner.
I didn't recognise her name on paper (because I just previously) knew her by first name and she didn't really talk about work, (why would she when she is relaxing). Been to a few parties where we danced, chatted, drank etc together. It is likely that we will be at many family parties together in the future too - as my relationship with my partner and his cousin's relationship is increasingly stronger.
Now she is representing apposing party in court case. Despite us previously getting on well- she is bound speak on behalf of her client (my ex) who is less that complimentary about me. Naturally her work face and party face are completely opposite.
I raised with the Usher that I knew her and was worried about a conflict of interest. He raised it with the legal adviser over-seeing today's directions. The solicitor came out and asked if I had a problem with her representing him and offered to refer to another solicitor -which may have meant significant delays when I was geared up today to go. So we went ahead.
The next stage though is in front of a judge and is set to be very thorny - ex harassment/childcare concerns etc . I just feel uncomfortable with her possible presence there. Bearing in mind that we are set joint party invites in the future.
Wondering how people would handle this situation. Are you aware of any legal rules that would suggest that maybe she isn't the right person to go ahead?
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Just found out Ex's Solicitor for last 2 Years is a Family Friend - Eek!
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GirlInASwirl · 08/01/2015 17:24
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