I'm so upset about my situation and am desperate for some advice on what others might do in a similar situation. I have posted on here in the past under a changed name.
I am currenty in legal stuff about contact with my ex. He's been offered supervised access because of his drug problems. I rang children's services and they said they support this and would be concerned about a heavy drug user looking after a very young child on their own.
The twist with this is that we work in the same place but I'm on leave. And as you might have guessed, my ex (classic narcissist) is playing the poor dad desperate to see his child and I am "witholding his child", so he has to "force contact through the courts". I have banned him from contacting me via my solicitor but am now receving thinly disguised anonymous threatening letters from "a mutual friend at work", saying that I am vindictive "witholding contact" and people are talking about me at work and saying how evil I am" and that I had better wach my step as my "cruel actions" will "threaten my goals and aspirations".
Obviously I am going to take this to my manager, as it is my ex spreading lies. My one concern is that I planned to take all the letters with me to prove the lies (because I checked our workplace policy and malicious lying is actually bullying), however they mention his drug use which the manager does not know about. As far as I know, neither do his colleagues. In fact, everyone thinks he is wonderful.
Do you think I should give my boss the letters? I am scard because if he gets suspended he will go psycho on me and I'll have his whole family/ex on my case :( :(
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Lies at work and threats over contact - help?
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Popplecake · 07/02/2014 14:22
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