Not sure if this is the right place to ask, but wondered what to do!
Apologies for the long post, I'm trying to explain it properly and I'm long winded...
I was given my Grannie's engagement ring after she died, a gold band with a v large semi-precious stone.
It was difficult for DM and DAunt to decide who to give it to, me, my sis, or my cousin, but my name came out of the hat last year and I was v v happy!
DSis was a bit gutted, but we decided it would be nice to have two copies made, one for DSis, and one for DCousin's 40th birthday (2014).
DSis was leaving the UK for a couple of years, so I lent it to her for her anniversary party, and after she took it to her jeweller in London for him to resize for me, and to quote for making two copies, leaving it there in summer 2012.
He made both mine and her engagement rings and she's known him over 10 years, he's a v high quality jeweller who does work and repairs for high end jewellery houses (DSis met him thru work when temping).
I called him a couple of months later re collecting it (hadn't been able to get hold of him to make the appt!), and after a few voicemails, he called to tell me he couldn't find it.
He kept searching, he found my silver ring that it had been delivered with for size comparison, but couldn't find the other one anywhere. He thought it would turn up with his annual workshop clear out, but no.
It is definitely lost.
He has apologised, but nothing makes it better, and I'm so cross that he didn't take care if it. The guy has £80k diamond rings scattered around his extremely messy and badly organised desk FFS, I doubt he's ever lost one of those! But my Gran's fairly worthless but to us priceless ring has either been lost down a floorboard or nicked by a visitor. :(
I was v upset, but have realised that doesn't really help so feel quite philosophical about it now.
DSis took over the email conversation with him earlier this year when he was still searching, he has agreed to make a replacement ring for no charge, but has not been forthcoming about when and exactly what (we weren't 100% sure what the stone was). I haven't been in touch with him for six months, tbh I'm still hoping it'll turn up.
DSis wants him to make the two copies at the same time, which makes sense as I have no idea where else to go for them, but his attitude has sucked tbh, and I really want him to offer a substantial discount at least!!
The ring isn't listed on our house insurance as they only wanted jewellery worth over £1k itemised. I don't even know how much Grannie's ring was worth, I'd hazard a guess at somewhere between £250-500 at most.
Any advice gladly welcomed, thanks
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LongTailedTit · 23/11/2013 20:05
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