Saw solicitor about divorce last week, she suggested i get residency of the children as H has depression, been suicidal in the last year and has felt he may harm the children in the past, he also goes to anger management and has a new woman who also has depression. She explained briefly about it but I can't remember what she said tbh as there was so much to take in. He has said they should live with me but wants them to stay over at his house, which I am not happy about at this point. I think this is why she suggested a residence order but am not sure? With joint responsibility can I stop him having them to stay in his new home? At the moment he is seeing them at my home with me there but I can tell he wants to get to seeing them at his place asap.
If I apply for residency could it be he just agrees and that is it, job done, or does it go to court anyway?
How does the procedure work in real life?
If I get residency what will that mean for me, the kids and my H, when things have settled and I feel he has resolved his issues can I then let the children stay with him?
Does it affect maintenance etc?
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leftfootrightfoot · 06/04/2013 20:54
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