Xh abusive, left when he was physically abusive to dd1, 3.5years ago.
Contact order in place, for unsupervised (which I argued was not good at the time). Ch has 7h every other sat. He has also signed an undertaking for not drinking during contact or for the 24h preceding, and to not drive the dc. He regularly breaks the not drinking during contact the children tell me how they have to stand outside the offie while he goes in to get tins of beer.
Camhs have assessed ds(8) and are referring to ss as they believe the contact is causing all his current problems- behavioural and sleep disturbances, at home and at school.
On the last weekend xh contacted child protection claiming dd2 (4) had made an allegation against dss(9) and the children ended up coming home with the police- again. Dss was upset because he'd been told they were sleeping over at xh's as soon as he'd picked them up, and when he said he wanted to go home he was told he wasn't. Dss is now very very wobbly emotionally and saying he's really scared of his dad, but when I reminded him that he can hold my hand and say he's not going he had a meltdown saying that he can't it's too scarey.
I really really want to put a stop to contact until ss have looked at the situation for all 3 dc's but especially for ds, it's affecting every aspect of his behaviour, how can I go about it? Next contact is the 5th Jan.
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Ds scared of his father, but too scared to say he doesn't want to go. There is a contact order in place, help!
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Readyisknitting · 28/12/2012 11:54
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