I have 2 of the most wonderful little boys , 3 and 8 months. They are my absolute world.
But there is quite a large part of me that doesn’t feel quite ‘done’ yet.
After number 1, and an awful birth and PND, I swore down I wouldn’t have another. But he got to 1 and I realised I wanted another (DH always did, but was happy to stick with 1 if that’s what I wanted).
Cue number 2, rubbish-ish pregnancy (I hate most of pregnancy anyway, but it was harder with a toddler in tow!) . We vowed during this pregnancy, and for a few weeks after, that that was it, no more. I then had amazing birth experience - awesome little boy, cheeky as anything, very advanced physically, terrible sleeper for the first 6 months, but all in all, going from 1 to 2 has been a huge amount easier for me than it was going from 0 to 1. Possibly due to PND etc, I don’t know.
But now, I can’t shake this feeling of wanting another (Certainly not yet though). Part of me doesn’t feel complete. Hubby isn’t keen as because feels he is getting old (he’s mid 30s now) , and dreads the sleepless nights, but he’s not totally against it.
Anyhow, I’m not entirely sure what I’m looking for here... partly just needed to share my feelings, but also , has any one else felt the same? What happened? Did you regret either having or not having number 3?
(Just to add - We would never have another unless both of us were 100% on board)
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I don't feel 'done' yet
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tootsieglitterballs · 21/07/2018 21:13
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