I'm aware this is not the correct place for me to be posting but I'm ever so desperate for some advice. I'm 61 and have been housing my sons ex girlfriend for coming up to a year now she is my grand daughters mother she also has a little boy to somebody else who is 10 months. I have given up my spare room for her where her and the kids have stayed but my youngest daughter has just moved back home from Leeds as her and her partner decided to call it quits on there relationship she is now 18 weeks pregnant. She has been a nightmare her sons father has kicked down my door and has caused trouble for me and my neighbours.
This is the tricky part she came to England aged 9 and her father didn't sort her papers out properly so she has to apply for a permit every three or five years. This means she is not eligible for any benefits or any housing she only gets child benefits and tax credit for the two children. My daughter that has just moved home is getting pretty anxious as she wants the spare room to prepare for her baby. I want her out of my house I don't feel comfortable in my own home it was only last year she was saying bad things about me on the Internet. And then I got a phone call from her saying she's going to kill her self and that I should take my granddaughter and she's had enough. I went to collect my grandaugher that night and then she said who's going to look after my granddaughter when I go to work so then she had to come live with me. The social services are involved they were suppose to be looking into housing for her but that hasn't gone anywhere. I want my house back now I'm sick and tired of it being in a mess and not being able to live the way I want.
I'm not an argumentive person and I don't like saying things to her because she will get angry and take it the wrong way. I need some help on how I can ask her to leave and how much time I should give her I feel awful for knowing my granddaughter will not have a stable home but surely I deserve my life back now.
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user1466545122 · 21/06/2016 23:12
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