Just looking to get some views really.
Split from long term partner a few years ago and have 3dc who are all lovely now they eat, sleep , walk and talk!
Forward to now, have a partner who I would like a future with but he has no children. He has taken on the ups and downs of mine but would dearly love his own.
He'd be happy to have one, knowing that 4 children will be hard work but I'm a bit worried.
Firstly am I too old (38) , secondly how will my 3 dc feel, youngest is 6, eldest is 13.
Lastly can we afford it? We would have to rent a house for a few years and I'm not sure if I have it in me to leave what was my 'family' home for the uncertainty of renting. There is no way my exh would allow me to stay put with another man and his child.
I love him and dearly want my life with him but is money being tight and going back to the baby stage at my age a good idea and is love enough to conquer all that.
I don't want to waste his time if it's not going to happen, he deserves to be happy and will be a great father.
Not sure what I'm asking really, does it all sound a bit mad?
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penguinplease · 16/11/2015 19:22
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