I have 3dds 10, 8 and 2. Dh works long hours including commute say 6.30 am to 7.30pm. As a result during the week he barely manages to bring his mug into the kitchen. I do all night wakings and virtually all the childcare and housework. I am also trying to run a smsll businesss very part time. At the weekend he does abit more but still nowhere near 50/50 (say 70/30)
He also only had 4 days off following dd3 birth so I was largely on my own following csection and tbh have never truly caught up. I see post where mums stress about their dh going back to work after 2 to 3 weeks with 1 or 2 dc and I think they are so lucky.
Do how do you hold it all together The house is a cluttered mess but I feel like I am on my own with my attempts to keep it tidy.
I realise the key is probably getting dc to help but dd2 also has some sen so there are limits. Any tips appreciated.
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angeleyes72 · 20/01/2015 02:04
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