I have 3 young DC who I adore. Also have full time job which can mean long hours.
My heart is totally crying out for a fourth and age wise I don't have long to decide - am v early forties. Come from a big family myself, adore babies and children.
BUT I am worried that it will make a big difference to our lives, that holidays will become much more expensive, that we won't be able to help them as much with uni fees if they go, friends won't invite us so much etc.
Financially, we are not rich but comfortable so no problems with day to day finances and DC 4 would not change that although would need good quality childcare for longer.
Dh is ok with having another, though not jumping for joy, and says I should decide.
I know I would cope fine. Easy to say I guess when I work full time!
What are others' experiences of the practical downsides of 4?
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ChompieMum · 22/03/2013 07:26
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