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Lisatay25 Thu 11-Oct-12 21:49:09

Me and my dh have 2 gorgeous dc our dd who is 3.02 and our ds who is 1.11 were both getting really broody again for another but a lot of people are saying we are stupid as we have one of each sad my and my dh feel like someone is missing from our family what's everyone's views on this ?? Please help xxxxx

emalushka Thu 11-Oct-12 21:56:47

Go for it. Currently pregnant with my third, so am biased! Just didn't feel finished after 2 and knew I would always be thinking "what if... "

TheSydenhamSet Thu 11-Oct-12 22:08:00

We had the 'pigeon pair' - never heard that term before, until I got my boy and girl. But I certainly didn't feel 'done' and we've gone on to have our little ds who's just turned 5 months. He's adorable and it's so wonderful to see how his big brother and sister dote on him. I think it's lovely to give children sibliings - they get so much from sibling relationships. I'd say go for it!

Lisatay25 Fri 12-Oct-12 05:35:41

Thanks ladies glad to hear ur views grin we've decided that we're gonna try next year can't stop thinking bout it lol I'm so broody how old are your kids xxxx

TheSydenhamSet Fri 12-Oct-12 23:28:07

ds 4.4 months, dd 2.4 months, ds 5 months. A full time job but so worth it!

bramblina Fri 12-Oct-12 23:32:52

I always said I'd like 2 dcs, dh works away and I was trying to be practical. I had a boy, then a girl. A friend had one of each, too, then went for a 3rd and I asked her what made her decide, she said a friend had said to her "you know when you've had enough, and I didn't", and it struck a chord. I also knew I had not had enough. It's nothing anyone can explain but it's just how you feel and so if that's how you're feeling, then that's what you should do.

I am now 34 wks pg with no 3 and absolutely delighted, if a little panicked by the juggling that will ensue, but hey, I can't wait for d-day and already know my life is complete, I am done, and it feels great.

I will be exhausted, skint, and a complete mess, but it feels great!

secretlyahippy Sat 13-Oct-12 02:15:16

I have 3, DD1 is 5, DD2 is 3 and DS is nearly 1. DS is lovely and I'm so glad I had him. Definately agree with the previous poster who said you know when you have had enough, I just didn't. I have now though as am knackered

Lisatay25 Sun 14-Oct-12 10:06:57

Thanks for all your messages glad to know u all understand lol smile xxxxx

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