We have 8 kids , 3 are over 16 , one married , with child herself(step-daughter). And im still broody .
Dh had vasectomy when twins were babies 5 years ago , and although i didnt want him to do it , i didnt protest to much , as i could understand his reasons for going for it.
Our house was too small for the kids we had , his job wasnt secure , i was suffering pnd ...& his ex wife had "accidentally got pg" whilst telling him she was on pill, so his trust in women generally was not there when it came to contraception .
However , life has changed quite a bit recently ... We have moved to a big semi with a huge garden , he has gained more security in his job and been given full time work...so we have more income ..Twins are settled at school and the last 6 at home are older , more responsable and independent.
I would love baby number 9 ...even ds4 has started to say he wants a baby brother or sister .
Theres a bit of me that thinks , a new baby would be easily accepted and adored by everyone in the family ....if only i had the guts to ask dh to get the reversal. We have the money for it ...and the means to support another child
I have the undercurrent sadness that will not go away ...i see babies everywhere i go and i just want to cry...
....so will you lovely people come and talk some sense into me ..8 children should be enough , wtf is wrong with me ?
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i really want to ask dh to have vasectomy reversal , come talk sense into me .
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droves · 11/08/2011 13:52
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