Ladies
First can I say I envy you for having these wonderful large families.
Let me tell you about my situation. When my wondeful husband and I got married we always said we wanted four children, but in 2007/2008 we had a whirlwind 13 months where I had two babies, 2 house moves and my husband was away, mainly fighting in Afgahnistan for 10 out of the 12 months.
Sadly once it all settled down I suffered a mental breakdown and it has taken me two years of hard work to get myself off medication and to sort my head out.
I am now in a place where I am truly loving being a mum and feel so fufiled and happy.
I am so ready to have a third but my husband is going back to Afgahnistan in 2012 and is terrified of me being ill again. When he returns from Afgahn he will be working away for another year.
I know he wants more children but I think he feels huge guilt about what happened to me, but I am of the belief that two children 13 months apart on your own will be harder than a 5yr and 4yr old and a new baby on your own as the older ones help and the eldest will be at school.
Am I looking at this through rose tinted glasses?
Thanks for your help and advice
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How can I pursuade him I will be ok
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GrenadierWife · 18/05/2011 16:36
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