Hi ladies. In a nutshell my fiancé and I have been trying for a baby for three years now. We have seen a fertility specialist who confirms after various tests that there is nothing wrong, having said that after my hycosy 4 months ago, was told that if it was to happen naturally it would more than likely be in the three months after the procedure. Obviously it hasn't happened..
on another note, we were due to get married in July which has been cancelled due to covid ( gutted but this can't be helped) we are not a well off family by any stretch and saved our buts off for the wedding, we're so excited and it was great to take our minds off ttc. We decided to get our money back and will re book once covid is over for short notice. However I have suggested we use the money for ivf ( I am extremely lucky to have a child already and my fiancé is an amazing step dad) being wed means ALOT to us both and I can't wait to call him my husband. I just can't get the idea out of my head that we could use the money on this. However I'm only 28 so I know we have time on our hands and did initially agree we would wait for ivf untill I'm 30. I'd be so sad to let my close friends and family down and not have the wedding especially if the treatment didn't work anyway. May I add that I have just came on so feeling emotional anyway so am I maybe thinking too deep? Any thoughts will be greatly appreciated and I'm sorry to rant x
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littlebitleaveit · 16/05/2020 19:36
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