So i dont want to seem ungrateful but we paid for our first full round of IVf and my inlaws said they would give us the money to do the 2nd round which was of course a lot cheaper at 2500 and when that failed they said that when we where ready they would help with the 3rd and final round. My dh hates taking a hand out as his sister also wanted to give us some money towards it and he said no. Now they are all in a better position financially my in laws are mortgage free and have inheritance and live well and my SIL too has a very successful husband. We are not on the bread line but we dont have a huge amount of disposable income and one thing i didnt want to do was put more stress on us with money troubles.
Now its come to the time to talk to them with the 3rd round now being opened up again here, and we have spoken to them and they have said they will have to talk about it! Now this has really made me low i am not expecting a hand out but why say it in the first place then? I have no parents to ask for help as they both passed away two years ago. I feel so alone and i have this cycle now so close and feel like its being ripped away from me.
Thinking i might increase my cc limited to at least get my meds in time
Sorry for the rant you may think im being ungrateful im not, but i wish people would not offer something and then rip it away.
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MrsLouB · 12/05/2020 06:32
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