My husband and I have been going through fertility issues for some time and have been referred for IVF. There are some issues on both sides but our main barrier is low sperm count/ morphology.
My SIL has told me recently that they had IVF to have their child. She also said she had multiple rounds after.
I feel hurt that my BIL hasn't told me or my DH before despite knowing what we are going through. I understand that it is a very personal experience but if your own family member is in the situation would you not feel compelled to share your own success story or to simply share advice on the process.
I just feel a bit thrown by our diagnosis and feel so gutted that our future might not involve children. I find it difficult that infertility is not a topic of conversation in so many situations that you just feel so alone. Why is it a taboo to talk about infertility and why do people find it so hard to open up
I know I have felt so sad and depressed but I laugh and make light hearted jokes when I talk to others about it.
I'm even starting to close off when talking to DH as I don't want him to feel guilt, even though I don't in any way see it as his fault.
I feel so weak that I'm already so affected when SIL managed to go through it all without is even realising anything was different. How do you stay strong?
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Hurt at not sharing infertility problems
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Christmas456 · 01/03/2020 01:54
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