I have an appointment Tuesday to get ball rolling for IVF. The appointment was cancelled and was in September.
We have had all tests and the only option for us is IVF with sperm donation.
I am now 4 kilo over the maximum weight😐. I feel absolutely awful as I know it’s self inflicted. I got in a pickle over knowing the appointment is coming up which has led to a lot of overeating.
I hate the consultant I am under as last appointment he wiped the floor with me and went on and on and on about my weight. Saying that I was so big and that I was putting my health in jeopardy and the giving myself no chance of every being pregnant. I was at the time 10 kilo over what I should have been. Which is a lot but there is a way to say it.
This was straight after all the results which showed DH had zero sperm. We were in bits and trying to process this. Then he talked and talked about my weight loss.
I know I need counselling and will book to see gp next week.
I now have to cancel the appointment on Tuesday which puts us back again I’m such a failure.
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thefishthatcouldwish · 12/10/2019 07:24
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