My history -
2013: IVF 1 - failed then had DS from the FET in 2014
2016/17: IVF 2 - failed and FET failed
2018: IVF 3 - miscarriage then failed FET
2019: IVF 4 - nothing suitable for transfer
2019: IVF 5 - only one suitable to transfer. Early blastocyst which failed today.
Have spent £36,000 trying for a sibling.
Now time to accept I will never have another biological child.
DH doesn't want to go for donor - doesn't want me to keep going through expensive treatment.
Adoption may be in the future but I don't know.
But today it hurts so bad that I won't ever have another child that I can see myself in. That will have a mix of mine and DH's hair colour. That will have inherited my mannerisms.
Has anyone been in my position? What did you do? Move on? Have a donor sibling? Adoption? All stories welcome.
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Failed to give my DS a sibling
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twinkledag · 23/09/2019 21:12
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