hi new poster on here. I have been unemployed for 3 months after suffering with MH meant I couldn't function in my job. Me and DH are due to start NHS IVF at some point within the next couple of months.
I cannot decide if it would be a good idea to look for a new job at this time. I am feeling a bit better MH wise but still suffer with anxiety, some days worse than others. My DH earns a decent salary and has been able to look after us both to this point, but I feel like our lives would be so much better if I was earning also (money to do up our ancient bathroom, money for holidays etc.) and there would be less pressure on DH to bring in all of the money.
Obviously if the IVF works and I didn't have a job I wouldn't get any maternity pay and wouldn't be able to work for some time, however I think I would be a bit disconnected from the job if I have all this IVF stuff going on in the background and know I may be leaving soon. Also is it fair to start job knowing I may get pregnant so soon?
Just to note my DH has absolutely been there for me during the MH and does not ever pressure me to get back into work (he says he is supportive of whatever I decide to do)
I'm just not sure what to do. Anyone that has been through IVF while employed, was it difficult?
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taking on a new job when about to start IVF
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user1483559398 · 04/01/2017 20:18
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