Hello all
Now where do I start. Firstly I guess my aim today is speak to someone who can give me some advice or even relate to my concerns.
I'm 28, not a parent and have met the man of my dreams whom in which we have spoken about having children in the next year or so.
When I was much younger I fell pregnant, it wasn't planned and I had an abortion, I know that'll create mixed views but as sad as it makes me feel I believed at the time I was doing the right thing. So please no negativity!
I have always suffered from irregular periods, but I've always had them, they might just turn up a week or two late but I'm used to it. It used to frustrate me when my friends knew down to the day and mine just comes and goes as it pleases.
Now for the more personal part, I've always been a hairy-ish (I'm no gorilla lol) where I get hair on my face (thick - probably due to me plucking), few on my chest and breasts. So this to me screams POS. I've had check ups and had blood tests in the past and it's come back all clear. Although I understand you'd need a scan to pick up POS.
Now combined with being overweight (not hugely) and not with the best diet, my partner and myself have decided to wait to try for children until we have adopted a healthier lifestyle and in hand (in theory) made it easier to conceive.
So my real question is as I was pregnant before can I lose my fertility? Has anyone got POS?
I worry so much about conceiving. My partner is perfect and I'll feel like a huge let down if it doesn't happen. It would be absolutely perfect to have his children but now I'm not sure it'll happen.
I must add, I worry a lot. To the extent of I came off my pill because I know sometimes periods don't come back and I had to make sure!
Any help or advice (nothing to make me further concerned please) will be much appreciated.
Thank you
Anna
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Worry wart in need of help
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Annaros987 · 24/12/2015 11:59
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