I am a mother and health care professional.
I had a rectovaginal fistula missed for 2.5 years after bowel surgery that went wrong and was in agony. My daughter was also born with gut disease that was only diagnosed with a definitive diagnosis when she was 10.
The school was concerned that I 'looked like i enjoyed being ill' when in fact I was trying to be cheerful through the hell and pain. This led to suspicion that I had Factitious Illness (and by proxy)
I am really concerned that
medical care esp for women and children is decreasing in this country
that people who are fighting to get a diagnosis for themselves or their children and have a better life are labelled as having FII
I am at a loss however to know what to do
It seems that making a fuss doesn't help - and neither actually does staying calm and doing what you are told
It seems once you are labelled that your care and that of your children will always be effected
It seems that as the medical care worsens the cases are probably increasing - but if you read on 'what do they know' there are several questions in relation to this and it seems that no stats are being kept, no audit is being done and no research on the effects of the allegations on children and their families'. Either this is bad practice or is deliberate. It certainly would not be allowable in any other part of medical practice.
I am interested in hearing from others on their experiences and how they resolved the situation (or didn't)
I don't want to defame or slander anyone but i do think there might be pockets of areas where professionals are making these allegations more than other places so i am happy to receive private messages sharing your experiences. My thoughts as limited as they are are that these pockets are in places where social services aren't submerged with more serious cases of neglect and abuse (i am not talking about real cases of FII. Anyone who has deliberately harmed their child needs serious help and the child more help)
I am also interested in hearing from anyone whose ex partners have made the allegations especially when it was part of wider abuse
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onlyadream · 08/11/2014 23:17
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