I am hoping for wisdom of those who have been in HE, or expats, or both.
And sorry for the length.
DD is in mainstream school (equivalent of P3) in our home country (but hours away from main family support). She has aspergers/ADHD and gets some support in school for that (and precious little elsewhere despite me trying). But the current resource teacher she's assigned to is the head of resource dept so constantly involved in lots of other things and regularly away from school, so DD is falling between cracks a little this year (constant changes of person taking her out, and not really sticking to a plan agreed in IEP, many days not getting the time out, resulting in problems in classroom).
OTOH, she is very able academically. Reads well and widely (when it suits her), very good at maths and logic, likes science, geography etc. OK at Irish (class average). Writes well when it suits her (slapdash to finish first mostly - but can do well, and her stories are good once she actually takes time to finish them). She understands a reasonable amount of me chatting in French (I tend to talk Irish to her when doing Irish homework and we sometimes manage a chat together, and occasionally chat in French at home to keep it up for myself (native English speaker but decent enough French that I occasionally need for social stuff around work), she'll understand enough to do a job but won't ever answer). She's getting better at actually interacting with people and getting involved in discussions generally.
She does need to work on social skills and emotional literacy generally. And the resource time is important to her in terms of time out of the classroom chaos as much as the social skills programme etc at times.
DH and I are both getting fed up here again. We have good jobs but are stifled and stressed out. I couldn't take a step back during the crisis as mine was dependable, and he had to do lots to keep his. We have looked in the past at emigrating, to various places, and would have jobs (or at least, DH) before going. We can easily go to Canada or USA, probably Australia, DH has spent half his time in South Africa recently and would consider other developing countries (as would I), and I want to spend 6 months in the US at some stage in the next 9 years at a minimum for other reasons - but we can go anywhere at the moment. (My parents spent time abroad in the US almost 40 years ago, and all of my siblings apart from me have lived abroad as adults, half are currently overseas scattered, DH also spent time in the UK before we got married).
When we get like this, I tend to look at options for schooling for DD, but as her issues have become more pronounced, I am looking at more support and it is less available in many places. So I may well have to look at HE. If she was in mainstream without support, it would be very difficult for all (she'd be in meltdown a lot, and the rest of her class would have great difficulty in learning around her disruptions - she doesn't meltdown now as she has support, understanding of her teachers and peers, and meds).
Both DH and I have uni degrees (science, engineering, economics and business subjects between us), and I have used HE resources for things at home already. But mostly things like maths sheets or literacy stuff (word mining or word searches etc) to get her brain to concentrate on 1 thing in bed to allow it to then switch "off" for sleep.
Would I be mad to consider HE in the context of a move abroad?
If it was an option, what sort of things should I be doing before going, finding resources online, arranging certain books to bring etc?
And what should I look for when researching where we might go?
Sorry this is so long, and I will be back but probably not immediately (I have to get back to work) - but any thoughts are gratefully received. And yes, I know it sounds chaotic and early stages (no even knowing which country we'd likely go to) - but this is why I need to know the basic steps etc first, to allow me consider whether this is an option or exactly what to look for in specific places.
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Consideration of HE as part of an international move?
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BiddyPop · 05/02/2015 14:16
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