I've always been committed to home educating my child, and luckily OH is FULLY on board with the idea. In the past we've spoken about it to others and had our heads bitten off. People think we're irresponsible, and our children would grow up feral and unsocialised. This hasn't changed our opinion, we both think it's absolute bull. Not impossible to ever happen, but highly unlikely if I have anything to do with it.
Anyway, now we are actually expecting things are hotting up! My mum is a teacher and seems to feel a bit defensive about it, the subject briefly came up once and I said breezily 'it won't go to school, we'll home educate it' and her face just dropped, her voice got low and she said 'oh? how will that work then?' very sinisterly. Luckily I got an excuse to change the subject and it's not come up since!
But it's bound to again. I've already made my mind up to carefully explain that it's OUR child, there is NO negotiation as me AND my husband are agreed...about OUR child, geddit? (but politely) but it's not just my mum. His mum lives very close and will have far more to do with the child. The whole family are very narrow minded, conservative, you name it and they already think I'm a weirdo because I'm sociable and talkative and have lived a life!
This thread doesn't really mean anything I guess, I'm just not looking forward to upsetting my mother, and how many years of silent treatment and disapproving looks from OHs family.....sigh
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RosyRosie · 14/10/2011 13:06
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